For couples
Conversations for two, about what matters
Small invitations for two adults: a question or a small gesture, usually ten minutes. The cards never ask about your values. They ask about money, family, Sundays and the things that usually go unsaid.
Between Us is still in the works.
Early days
Say one thing you want to keep for yourself — a morning, a friend, a Sunday, a habit. Then ask for theirs.
Why it matters: Couples who name what they need to keep, early, don’t have to defend it later. What stays unsaid turns into a fight about something else.
Two minutes. Expect one back.
Years in
Tell them one thing they do that you stopped noticing years ago — and noticed today.
Why it matters: Long relationships rarely lose love. They lose attention. Attention can be put back one sentence at a time.
One sentence. No “but”.
For couples getting to know each other. From light to deep, never awkward.
For couples who have been together for years. From appreciation to the things you stopped saying.
Either of you can turn down any card. No card asks you to share something you don’t want to share.
These cards are for couples who want to talk with each other. They are not a substitute for couples counselling. Where one person is afraid of the other, they are not the right tool.